RET: Stop worrying course

In this training course you will learn to use Albert Ellis's REBT method to recognise your worrying thoughts and turn them around, so that you act with more confidence and decisiveness.

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In brief. REBT: Stop Worrying is a 4-day classroom course. You can take it in Amsterdam, Utrecht, Groningen and Zwolle or online, in a group of no more than 8 participants. The price is EUR 2500,- excl. VAT per participant, including course materials, lunch on location and a certificate of attendance. We also run this course for a team or department in-company.

  • Peace of mind, a grip on your thoughts
  • Guidance from experienced psychologists
  • Directly applicable in your daily life
  • Practical exercises using your own situations
  • Insight into your own thought patterns
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Worrying keeps you stuck in thoughts that get you nowhere. With Albert Ellis's REBT method you gain a grip on limiting beliefs and turn them into effective thoughts. You become more confident, more flexible and more decisive.

Description

Worrying, doubting and feeling unsure of yourself: often it is not the events themselves that throw you off balance, but the way you think about them. In this course REBT: Stop worrying you will work with Rational Emotive Therapy, developed by psychologist Albert Ellis.

You will learn to recognise and analyse unhelpful thoughts and beliefs using the A-B-C model. You will gain insight into irrational thought patterns such as catastrophic thinking, perfectionism and a low frustration tolerance, and you will practise turning these thoughts into more effective alternatives.

The course alternates theory with practical exercises, self-reflection and experimenting with new behaviour. You work with your own RET model and apply what you have learnt directly to situations from your day-to-day practice. The course is led by psychologists specialising in personal development.

Topics

  • Limiting beliefs and assumptions
  • The REBT method
  • The A-B-C model of REBT: event (A), thoughts (B), behaviour and/or emotions (C)
  • Rational and irrational thoughts
  • Flawed reasoning
  • Fanatical perfectionism
  • Catastrophic thinking
  • Low frustration tolerance
  • Demands on others
  • Practising with your own REBT model

Result

After this course you will recognise your own limiting thoughts and know how to turn them into effective, helpful ones. You will work independently with the RET A-B-C model and apply it to situations from your own practice.

You will act with more confidence, flexibility and decisiveness. Worrying, perfectionism and catastrophic thinking will have less of a hold on you, so you make choices more calmly and reach your personal goals more easily.

Target audience

This course is suitable for anyone who suffers from worrying or unhelpful thoughts. You may recognise yourself in one or more of these situations:

You are a perfectionist and set the bar high for yourself, you find it difficult to say 'no' or to disappoint people, you dread speaking in front of a group, you find it hard to delegate tasks or to take on a conflict, you feel that others easily walk all over you, you want to go through life more confidently, more flexibly and more decisively.

No prior knowledge is required. All you need to bring is a willingness to look critically at your own thoughts.

Teaching method

During the course we alternate between concrete experience, experimenting with behaviour and techniques, reflection and exploring theory. This means the programme suits a range of different participants. There is plenty of action in the course, so that you actually experience the effect of new behaviour. This makes it possible to recognise success. We also emphasise that everyone is responsible for their own development and must take ownership of it. During our course we invite you to reflect continuously and to make connections with your own practice. Our aim is to increase your insight and to let you make the translation to your own situation. This increases the likelihood of real behavioural change.

Prior knowledge

You do not need any prior knowledge to take part in this course. An open attitude and a willingness to look at your own thoughts and behaviour are enough. You learn the rest during the course.

Practical information

Number of days
4 days
Course times
from 10 am to 5 pm
Teaching hours
24 hours
Education level
Suitable for all levels
Preparation time
None
Included
Course materials and lunch on site
Certificate
At the end of the course you will receive a certificate of attendance
Cancel
Free up to four weeks before the start (cancellation terms)

Language

The course is given in Dutch as standard. The trainer speaks English. English-language course materials can be used. If at least 3 participants register, the course can also be given entirely in English.

In-company

Would you like to organise this training for a whole group or several groups? This can be cost-effective. For example, we can tailor the content entirely to your organisation, and training a whole group is also cheaper.

Are you looking at large numbers of participants or a complete academy? That involves a great deal. Consider planning and communication, for example, or identifying and agreeing the objectives and content of the training. Or differences in level, feedback mechanisms and safeguarding. Fortunately, Learnit has extensive experience in this field (more than 25 years) and we are happy to help you through this process.

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All start dates

4 training days. Confirmed dates first, then in date order.

  • Fri 30 Oct to Fri 11 Dec 2026Certain to go ahead Groningen · 10:00–17:00 Enrol
  • Fri 30 Oct to Fri 11 Dec 2026 Zwolle · 10:00–17:00 Enrol
  • Thu 19 Nov to Wed 30 Dec 2026 Online · 10:00–17:00Free cancellation until 22 October Enrol
  • Thu 19 Nov to Wed 30 Dec 2026 Utrecht · 10:00–17:00Free cancellation until 22 October Enrol
  • Tue 5 Jan to Tue 16 Feb 2027 Utrecht · 10:00–17:00Free cancellation until 8 December Enrol
  • Tue 2 Feb to Tue 16 Mar 2027 Amsterdam · 10:00–17:00Free cancellation until 5 January Enrol

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What others say about this course

8.9
RET: Stop Worrying course: average 8.9 from 20 reviews

“This is a course that had an immediate effect on me. It has been of enormous value to me, both professionally and personally.”

A. van Veldhoven
AAG Payroll & HRM Services B.V.
9.0

“A very practical course that gave me plenty of tools to put what I learned into practice. The day flew by!”

Marleen Gerritse
Cato Wonen Welzijn Zorg
9.3

“A good course in which I was given tips that I could apply in practice straight away. As a result, I experience less stress and am better able to put things into perspective, which gives me more calm in my body. I am very glad to have had the chance to experience this course.”

Alma Lutteke-Hodzic Mehic
Rabobank Rijn en Heuvelrug

“A positive course in which exercises and good tips help you achieve better results with the things you struggle with – the very reasons you want to take the course.”

J. Wensink
UWV
8.7

“A good course with a good balance between theory and practice.”

F. Rekkers
Gemeente Den Haag
8.1

“Professional, expert, very useful and easy to apply in practice. As far as I'm concerned, a must for anyone who wants to work on themselves.”

M. de Swart
Rabobank
7.9

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Frequently asked questions

Can I cancel free of charge?

Yes. Up to four weeks before the first day of the course you can cancel free of charge, without giving a reason. You then receive a credit note or, if you have already paid, a refund. If you cancel later, you pay part of the course fee: 25% between four and two weeks before the start, 75% in the two weeks before it and 100% in the final week. Moving to another start date is free of charge up to two weeks before the start, after that 50%. Sending a colleague in your place is always possible. Read the cancellation terms.

Who is the RET: Stop Worrying course suitable for?
The course is suitable for anyone who struggles with worrying, perfectionism or unhelpful thoughts. You may recognise yourself in having difficulty saying 'no', disappointing people, delegating, tackling conflicts or speaking in front of a group. No prior knowledge is required. The course is taught in a classroom setting by psychologists specialising in personal development.
Which subjects are covered in the REBT course Stop Worrying?
In the REBT: Stop Worrying course you will learn to work with Albert Ellis's A-B-C model: activating event (A), beliefs (B) and behaviour or emotions (C). You will recognise irrational thoughts such as catastrophic thinking, fanatical perfectionism, low frustration tolerance and demands on others. You will then practise with your own REBT model to turn unhelpful beliefs into effective behaviour.
Is any prior knowledge required for the REBT: Stop Worrying course?
No, no prior knowledge is required for the RET: Stop Worrying course. The course is open to anyone who wants to break the habit of worrying. You work through Albert Ellis's RET method in a classroom setting, guided by a psychologist. An individual intake takes place beforehand, so that the programme matches your personal learning objectives and your own situation in practice.
What does the teaching method of the REBT course Stop Worrying look like?
The course is taught in a classroom setting by a psychologist who specialises in personal development. You alternate between theory, self-reflection, practising with real-life situations and experimenting with new behaviour. Using Albert Ellis's A-B-C model, you analyse limiting thoughts and reshape them into more effective beliefs.
Who teaches the REBT: Stop Worrying course at Learnit?
The RET: Stop Worrying course is led by psychologists who specialise in personal development courses. They know Albert Ellis's RET method inside out and know how to turn limiting thoughts around in practice. So you get an experienced trainer who moves smoothly between theory, exercises and reflection in a classroom setting of.
What is the difference between the REBT course Stop Worrying and a mindfulness or stress management course?
RET (Rational Emotive Therapy) focuses specifically on recognising and reshaping irrational thoughts, whereas mindfulness mainly teaches you to observe thoughts without judgement. With RET you work actively with the A-B-C model: you analyse the event (A), the thought about it (B) and the resulting behaviour or emotion (C). You then deliberately challenge limiting beliefs, such as catastrophising or rigid perfectionism. Mindfulness teaches you to accept, RET teaches you to restructure. The method was developed by psychologist Albert Ellis and at Learnit it is taught by psychologists. Choose RET if you want to stop worrying in concrete terms by changing your thought patterns. Choose mindfulness if you mainly want to train calm and attention. The course is taught in a classroom setting.
When should I choose the REBT course instead of a self-help book or an online programme about worrying?
A self-help book or online programme on REBT gives you the theory and some exercises, but you apply it to your own thinking on your own. That works if you are mainly looking for insight and are disciplined enough to practise by yourself. In Learnit's classroom-based REBT course you work with a psychologist who helps you recognise your own limiting beliefs, you get immediate feedback on your A-B-C scheme and you practise in real-life situations with other participants. Choose the course if you notice that reading alone does not lead to behavioural change, if you get stuck on persistent patterns such as perfectionism or catastrophising, or if you benefit from personal guidance and practice in a group. For a general interest in REBT, a book will usually suffice.
What can I concretely do differently after RET training?
After the course you will recognise your own limiting thoughts and be able to turn them into rational alternatives using Albert Ellis's A-B-C model. In concrete terms this means: you will recognise faulty reasoning, catastrophic thinking, fanatical perfectionism and low frustration tolerance in yourself, and you will apply the REBT model to real situations from your work or personal life. You will have practised with real-life situations in which you previously got stuck, for example saying 'no', delegating or tackling a conflict. The course is taught in a classroom setting by a psychologist specialising in personal development. The set-up across several course days is a deliberate choice: a single day is too short to genuinely break through thought patterns, because practising in real life between the course days is a fixed part of the method.
How does the RET: Stop Worrying course compare with an individual coaching or therapy programme?
RET (Rational Emotive Therapy) was originally a therapeutic method developed by psychologist Albert Ellis, but at Learnit it is a course in personal development. Not a treatment. The course is taught in a classroom setting by psychologists who specialise in training in the field of personal development. You work as a group with the A-B-C model, practise with situations from your own working life and find recognition among fellow participants with similar patterns. An individual coaching or therapy programme goes deeper into your personal history and is more appropriate for complaints such as anxiety disorders, depression or trauma. Choose the RET course if you want to get a grip on worrying, perfectionism or catastrophic thinking in a work or private context. For more serious psychological complaints we will refer you to a GP or psychologist.
Is the REBT course Stop Worrying also suitable if I work hybrid or mostly from home and therefore worry more?
Yes, the REBT method works regardless of your working situation, because it addresses your thoughts. Not your working environment. When working hybrid or from home in particular, you often worry more: less feedback from colleagues, a vaguer distinction between work and private life, and more room for ongoing streams of thought. During the course (p.p., classroom-based) you learn to apply the A-B-C model to concrete situations: an unanswered Teams message (A), your interpretation 'my colleague is annoyed' (B), and the resulting worrying (C). You practise recognising catastrophising, perfectionism and low frustration tolerance. Patterns that tip over more quickly in a home-working setting. The course does not give you tips for organising your diary; it gives you a way of thinking that works in any context, including at your own desk.
Can I also apply the REBT method from this course to worrying about work-life balance, or does it focus mainly on work situations?
The REBT method you learn in this course is in principle independent of any particular domain. Albert Ellis developed REBT as a general method for turning irrational thoughts into rational ones, whatever the subject. The A-B-C model (event-thought-consequence) works just as well for a difficult conversation with your manager as for worrying about your family or your health. During the course you practise with your own REBT models, and you choose which situations to bring in. Many participants work on a mix of work and private themes, particularly around perfectionism, saying 'no' and not wanting to disappoint people. The course is taught in a classroom setting by psychologists specialising in personal development.
What does the REBT: Stop Worrying course cost and how long does it last?

You can find the current price at the top right of this course page, along with the schedule, location and delivery format. For in-company or bespoke courses we are happy to provide a quotation on request.

Confirmed: Fri 30 Oct to Fri 11 Dec 2026 in Groningen

This date already has enough participants. Free cancellation up to four weeks before the start, so you can secure a place now.

€ 2500,-excl. VAT · confirmed on Fri 30 Oct
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