course in which you learn to deal professionally with aggression from members of the public. You practise with an actor using realistic situations from your own working practice.

  • practising with a training actor
  • Realistic situations from your own working practice
  • Personal learning objectives set during the intake
  • De-escalation techniques you can apply straight away
  • A practical plan for buddy support in your team

2 days

Amsterdam Mon 28 & Tue 29 December 2026
Den Haag Tue 15 & Wed 16 June 2027
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€1250,-

Demonstrations that get out of hand. A member of the public who starts shouting at you at the counter out of frustration. Or an inspection that suddenly turns into an argument. In this course you learn how to act calmly and professionally in such situations.

Description

Government employees are increasingly confronted with aggression. Sometimes it stems from frustration, sometimes it is instrumental: a member of the public deliberately uses aggression to get something done. Both forms call for a different response from you as an enforcement officer or front-desk employee.

In this training course you learn how to assess situations quickly, how to de-escalate verbally and how to set boundaries without unnecessarily damaging your relationship with the citizen. The focus is on verbal communication: how do you keep the conversation functional and effective, even when tensions rise?

On both days you work with a training actor. The actor re-enacts situations from your own working practice, so you can immediately practise with what suits you and the situation. That way, theory becomes behaviour you can apply straight away.

Topics

  • Basic communication in the face of aggression
  • The difference between frustration aggression and instrumental aggression
  • Power relations and the citizen's frame of reference
  • Making a problem analysis in a conflict situation
  • De-escalation techniques: listening, summarising, asking follow-up questions and following through
  • Effective interpersonal skills for handling aggression
  • Solution-focused working in a tense conversation
  • Responding assertively and the importance of timing
  • Setting boundaries without letting the situation escalate
  • Dealing with criticism and staying calm under pressure
  • Handling confrontations professionally
  • Supporting colleagues and buddy support in the workplace

Result

After this course you recognise different forms of aggression and understand why a member of the public reacts as they do. You quickly analyse the problem, choose a suitable de-escalation technique and apply your conversation skills purposefully. You set boundaries, stay calm under criticism and handle confrontations professionally. You also know how to support colleagues after an incident and how to organise buddy support in the workplace.

Target audience

This training course is intended for anyone working in the public sector who deals, or may deal, with aggression at work. Think of enforcement officers, police officers, parking wardens, environmental and tax inspectors, intervention staff, team leaders and working foremen. Reception staff at local authorities and other government bodies are also very welcome.

Teaching method

The course is practice-oriented. You start with an intake session in which you and the trainer determine your personal learning objectives. On that basis we tailor the programme to the group. On both days you work with a training actor who re-enacts situations from your own working practice, so that you can experiment with different approaches in a safe setting.

At the end of the second day we make agreements about buddy support: how do you support each other after a difficult incident and how do you ask colleagues for support? That way you take new skills back with you, along with a workable plan for your team.

Prior knowledge

No specific prior knowledge is required. Practical experience with public-facing contact is an advantage, however, as you will work extensively with situations from your own job.

In-company

Would you like to organise this training for a whole group or several groups? This can be cost-effective. For example, we can tailor the content entirely to your organisation, and training a whole group is also cheaper.

Are you looking at large numbers of participants or a complete academy? That involves a great deal. Consider planning and communication, for example, or identifying and agreeing the objectives and content of the training. Or differences in level, feedback mechanisms and safeguarding. Fortunately, Learnit has extensive experience in this field (more than 25 years) and we are happy to help you through this process.

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Language

The training is given in Dutch as standard. The trainer has a good command of English. English-language course material can be used. With a minimum enrolment of 3 participants, the training can also be given entirely in English.

Available dates

When would you like to start?

Mon 28 & Tue 29 December 2026

Amsterdam
€ 1250,- excl. VAT

Tue 15 & Wed 16 June 2027

Den Haag
€ 1250,- excl. VAT

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Location
Date

2 training days

Amsterdam

Mon 28 & Tue 29 December 2026

Amsterdam
€ 1250,- excl. VAT

Den Haag

Tue 15 & Wed 16 June 2027

Den Haag
€ 1250,- excl. VAT

No suitable start date? Send us a date request. Then we will look together at how we can still meet your training needs.

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What others say about this course

  • "A highly capable trainer with broad expertise. The facilities are perfectly in order. A teaching day (7 hours) is just long enough to stay focused"

  • "It was an enjoyable course."

  • "Learned lots of handy tricks"

  • "Perfect course!! Very pragmatic and immediately applicable!!!"

  • "Very good course in which you learn at your own pace. Definitely recommended."

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    Frequently asked questions

    This course is intended for public sector staff who encounter, or may encounter, aggression in their work. Think of BOAs, police officers, parking wardens, environmental and tax inspectors, intervention staff, team leaders and front-desk staff at local authorities and other government bodies.

    No, specific prior knowledge is not required. Practical experience with public-facing contact does help, however, as the course works extensively with situations from your own job.

    You learn to recognise and understand aggression, make a quick problem analysis and apply various de-escalation techniques. You practise setting boundaries, staying calm under criticism and handling confrontations professionally. You also learn how to support colleagues after an incident.

    You work in a small group with a trainer and a training actor. The actor re-enacts situations from your own working practice, so that you can practise straight away. Theory and practice alternate, with plenty of room for personal feedback.

    Yes, on completion you receive a Learnit certificate of participation. This shows that you have attended the course and practised the skills covered.

    Yes, this course is highly suitable as an in-company programme for your team or department. We then tailor the programme to the specific situations your colleagues encounter in their work. Contact us for a bespoke quotation.

    Frustration aggression stems from emotion: a member of the public feels powerless or unfairly treated and reacts from that emotion. Instrumental aggression is behaviour deliberately used to get something done, for example to make you abandon an inspection. Each calls for a different response. Frustration aggression often subsides if you really listen and acknowledge the emotion. With instrumental aggression, setting clear boundaries works better.

    Staying calm starts with preparation and awareness of your own reaction. In this course you learn how to recognise signs of rising tension early, how to use your breathing and posture deliberately, and how to get to know your own triggers. You also practise with language that disarms rather than escalates. By practising this extensively with an actor, you build up a reflex you can fall back on in real situations.

    The basis is LSQ: listen, summarise and question. By really listening and naming the emotion the person is feeling, you often take the edge off the situation. It also helps to be concrete about what you can and cannot do, and to be clear about your role. Sometimes a short time-out or a step back is more effective than continuing the conversation. Which technique is appropriate depends on the type of aggression and your assessment of the situation.

    Setting boundaries works best when you are calm, clear and respectful. You name the behaviour that is unacceptable, you explain what you expect and you state what will happen otherwise. It is important to be consistent and not to get drawn into a discussion about the boundary itself. Timing plays a major role: setting a boundary too early feels unnecessarily harsh, setting it too late makes you less credible. During the course you practise this moment of setting boundaries extensively.

    Dealing with aggression takes mental energy, even when you respond professionally. Buddy support means colleagues look after each other after an incident, carry out a brief check and refer on where necessary. This reduces stress, prevents tension from building up and strengthens teamwork. At the end of the course we make concrete agreements about buddy support in your workplace.

    You can find the current price at the top right of this course page, along with the schedule, location and delivery format. For in-company or bespoke courses we are happy to provide a quotation on request.