In this course you learn to adopt a professional attitude towards verbal and physical aggression. You practise de-escalating conversation techniques and strengthen your self-knowledge and self-control.

  • You are stronger in the face of aggression
  • De-escalating with a professional attitude
  • Insight into your own pitfalls
  • Practical conversation techniques that work
  • Buddy support and support from colleagues

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2 days

Groningen Wed 14 & Wed 28 October 2026
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€1250,-

Angry customers, demonstrators or people behaving aggressively: in almost every profession you will encounter them. In this course you work on self-knowledge, conversation techniques and a professional basic attitude that enables you to de-escalate threatening situations.

Description

In Learnit's Dealing with Aggression course you learn how to stand your ground in the face of verbal and physical aggression at work. You work on a professional basic attitude that allows you to de-escalate threatening situations consciously, rather than being led by your emotions.

You gain insight into your own behaviour and pitfalls, and you learn to assess situations better on the basis of your profession, the context and your personality. You also practise various de-escalating conversation techniques, such as listening, summarising, asking follow-up questions, responding assertively and setting boundaries.

The course alternates between theory, practical exercises and reflection on your day-to-day working practice. Before the course you have an individual intake in which you formulate your personal learning objectives. On that basis we tailor the programme to your situation. We also pay attention to peer support (buddy support) and the importance of reporting incidents.

Topics

During the Dealing with Aggression course, the following topics are covered, among others:

About aggression and conflict

  • Different types of conflict
  • Different types of aggression, including verbal, physical and digital aggression
  • The physical and mental effects of aggression

Dealing with aggressive behaviour

  • Carrying out a problem analysis
  • Different views of the same conflict: facts or interpretations?
  • Conversation skills: listening, summarising and asking follow-up questions
  • Responding assertively and choosing the right timing
  • Preventing frustration
  • Solving problems
  • Setting boundaries
  • Dealing with criticism and staying calm
  • Taking on confrontations

The organisational side of aggression

  • Raising awareness and creating an open culture
  • Giving and receiving support from colleagues (buddy support)
  • The purpose and importance of reporting incidents

Result

After the Dealing with Aggression course, you will stand your ground more firmly in the face of verbal and physical aggression at work. You recognise different types of conflict and forms of aggression, and you know what causes underlie them. Think of conflicting interests or clashing interpretations.

You make a sharp analysis of the problem and consciously choose the right approach. You apply de-escalating conversation techniques, work in a solution-oriented way and know how to prevent frustration and set clear boundaries. In threatening situations you adopt an open, professional attitude.

You will also know your own pitfalls and be able to separate your emotions from the other person's behaviour. This allows you to stay calm under pressure and makes you less vulnerable. You know when it is time to call in help, and you recognise the importance of support from colleagues and buddy support after an incident.

Target audience

The Dealing with Aggression course is intended for anyone who wants to learn to de-escalate threatening situations, verbal and physical, with a professional basic attitude. Think of care workers, social workers, municipal officials and other government employees. Bailiffs, shop staff and people working on a helpdesk or in customer services also get a great deal out of this course.

Teaching method

In the Dealing with Aggression course we alternate between experiencing, experimenting with behaviour and techniques, reflecting and exploring theory. This dynamic means you immediately experience the effect of new behaviour. We continually invite you to reflect and to make connections with your day-to-day practice. In this way you gain more and more insight and become better at recognising which techniques work for you. That increases the chance of genuine behavioural change and helps you take ownership of your own development.

Prior knowledge

This course requires no specific prior knowledge. It is useful, however, if your work or daily life involves situations in which aggression may occur. That way you can get straight to work during the course with recognisable examples.

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Would you like to organise this training for a whole group or several groups? This can be cost-effective. For example, we can tailor the content entirely to your organisation, and training a whole group is also cheaper.

Are you looking at large numbers of participants or a complete academy? That involves a great deal. Consider planning and communication, for example, or identifying and agreeing the objectives and content of the training. Or differences in level, feedback mechanisms and safeguarding. Fortunately, Learnit has extensive experience in this field (more than 25 years) and we are happy to help you through this process.

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Language

The training is given in Dutch as standard. The trainer has a good command of English. English-language course material can be used. With a minimum enrolment of 3 participants, the training can also be given entirely in English.

Available dates

When would you like to start?

Mon 21 Dec 2026 & Mon 4 Jan 2027

Amsterdam
€ 1250,- excl. VAT

Wed 7 & Wed 21 October 2026

Online
€ 1250,- excl. VAT

Mon 4 & Mon 18 January 2027

Den Haag
€ 1250,- excl. VAT

Mon 1 & Mon 15 March 2027

Rotterdam
€ 1250,- excl. VAT

Tue 25 May & Tue 8 Jun 2027

Utrecht
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Mon 5 & Mon 19 July 2027

Utrecht
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Wed 16 & Wed 30 September 2026

Arnhem
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Tue 10 & Tue 24 November 2026

Arnhem
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Wed 7 & Wed 21 October 2026

Eindhoven
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Thu 18 Feb & Thu 4 Mar 2027

Eindhoven
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Wed 14 & Wed 28 October 2026

Groningen Trainer: Garbrand
Guaranteed start
€ 1250,- excl. VAT

Wed 27 Jan & Wed 10 Feb 2027

Groningen
€ 1250,- excl. VAT

Wed 27 Jan & Wed 10 Feb 2027

Zwolle
€ 1250,- excl. VAT

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Location
Date
Guaranteed start

2 training days

Guaranteed start

Wed 14 & Wed 28 October 2026

Groningen Trainer: Garbrand
Guaranteed start
€ 1250,- excl. VAT

Amsterdam

Mon 21 Dec 2026 & Mon 4 Jan 2027

Amsterdam
€ 1250,- excl. VAT

Online

Wed 7 & Wed 21 October 2026

Online
€ 1250,- excl. VAT

Den Haag

Mon 4 & Mon 18 January 2027

Den Haag
€ 1250,- excl. VAT

Rotterdam

Mon 1 & Mon 15 March 2027

Rotterdam
€ 1250,- excl. VAT

Utrecht

Tue 25 May & Tue 8 Jun 2027

Utrecht
€ 1250,- excl. VAT

Mon 5 & Mon 19 July 2027

Utrecht
€ 1250,- excl. VAT

Arnhem

Wed 16 & Wed 30 September 2026

Arnhem
€ 1250,- excl. VAT

Tue 10 & Tue 24 November 2026

Arnhem
€ 1250,- excl. VAT

Eindhoven

Wed 7 & Wed 21 October 2026

Eindhoven
€ 1250,- excl. VAT

Thu 18 Feb & Thu 4 Mar 2027

Eindhoven
€ 1250,- excl. VAT

Groningen

Wed 14 & Wed 28 October 2026

Groningen Trainer: Garbrand
Guaranteed start
€ 1250,- excl. VAT

Wed 27 Jan & Wed 10 Feb 2027

Groningen
€ 1250,- excl. VAT

Zwolle

Wed 27 Jan & Wed 10 Feb 2027

Zwolle
€ 1250,- excl. VAT

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Reviews

What others say about this course

Dealing with aggression course reviews - Average score 8.5 from 31 reviews

  • “We were able to practise a good range of situations with customers.”

    P. Vijfhuizen, Fides Wonen- Dealing with Aggression
    Rating 7.0
  • “Intensive course but very instructive. Clear explanations and room to discuss and practise your own obstacles. This helps you understand why you should apply which technique to deal with the different forms of aggression. Your own conflict style is examined, and this is very important in how you communicate with others. You become aware of your points for improvement and are given tools to practise them.”

    N. van den Esschert, CAI Harderwijk- Dealing with Aggression
    Rating 9.8
  • “The course was very practice-oriented; you can put what you have learned to use straight away.”

    R. Mulder, Mijande - Dealing with Aggression
    Rating 8.4
  • “A highly practical course with plenty of attention for personal situations. I am extremely satisfied with the content in terms of level and the professionalism of the trainer, the length of the course, the pace of teaching and the balance between theory and practice. The trainer is very professional and knows what she is talking about. She is informal in just the right measure and very customer-focused and friendly. A good source of inspiration who is skilled at motivating participants and explaining information. The venue is easy to reach, the entrance and rooms look attractive, the reception staff are friendly, the atmosphere is pleasant and the lunch is delicious. I also had pleasant and professional contact with the organisation.”

    S.D.J. Wien- Dealing with aggression
    Rating 9.2
  • “This course has taught me to handle and recognise my personal obstacles better and better. With plenty of useful tips. Highly recommended!”

    K. Vangermeersch, ATMP Services B.V. - Dealing with Aggression
    Rating 8.2
  • “A very instructive course, from which you can draw a great deal in everyday work situations.”

    D. van den Berg, Ad Hoc - Dealing with Aggression
    Rating 8.7
  • “If you want to gain a good initial insight into recognising and dealing with aggression, this course comes recommended.”

    Gerda Kan, INOVA- Dealing with Aggression
    Rating 7.1
  • “I am very satisfied with the content of the course. There was a great deal of interaction. The theory was explained using examples from practice. Everything was clear. There was plenty of variation in the explanations and exercises, which kept you alert and made the day go quickly. During the course it became clear to me what aggression actually involves and how I can best deal with it in my job. You are confronted with yourself in an appropriate way, so that you know how you yourself react in certain situations in which aggression plays the main role. Good tips from colleagues and the trainer gave you the opportunity to improve. I found out that I already handle aggression reasonably well, but that is also good to hear and see. I am now more confident and I can imagine that some people really benefit from this course. In some jobs it is very important (particularly for safety) to know how to deal with aggression and (verbal) violence. It was also great fun and very instructive to work with an actor.”

    H.J. Brinks, Mijande- Dealing with Aggression
    Rating 8.4
  • “I thought it was a good course in terms of content. The trainer was well read up and well prepared. The day was well organised; all in all an enjoyable experience.”

    M. Anink, APM Terminals Rotterdam B.V. - Dealing with Aggression
    Rating 7.0
  • “An instructive course that you can put to good use in practice.”

    P.J. Bakelaar, Fides Wonen- Dealing with Aggression
    Rating 8.6
  • “Good course with a perfect balance between theory and practice, and what you learn is easy to apply in your daily work.”

    P.C. Klink, Fides Wonen - Dealing with Aggression
    Rating 9.0
  • “Effective course, clear learning objectives and an expert trainer.”

    D. List - Enexis- Dealing with aggression
    Rating 8.8
  • “You start out thinking: let's see where this goes. Then you begin to notice that it can come in useful now and then. But it is only once you are really working with it that you understand how to filter certain forms of aggression. Definitely a recommendation from my side.”

    G. Scholten, Mijande Wonen- Dealing with Aggression
    Rating 9.6
  • “The ‘Dealing with Aggression’ course is an excellent course for gaining insight into yourself and your colleagues.”

    S. Kievit, Ad Hoc - Dealing with Aggression
    Rating 8.3
  • “I found it a very instructive and also enjoyable course. Good exercises that you can certainly do something with! I found the aggression course very interesting. For learning to deal with certain circumstances, but also for getting to know a part of yourself! I really enjoyed doing the course!”

    A. Tauran, Ad Hoc- Dealing with Aggression
    Rating 8.9
  • “Good course, pleasant teacher and certainly to be recommended if the course fits your work”

    H.T. de Vries, Provincie Fryslân - Dealing with aggression
    Rating 8.3
  • “Very practical and pleasant course in which theory and practice complement each other well.”

    Joey Wiegman, Versluisgroep B.V.- Dealing with Aggression
    Rating 8.9
  • “I was pleasantly surprised. Full of praise for the trainer. Chapeau, keep it up.”

    T. Wetzels - Enexis - Dealing with Aggression
    Rating 8.8
  • “The course was tailor-made, demand-driven and engaging.”

    J. Teuben, Trema - Dealing with Aggression
    Rating 7.8
  • “Enjoyable course that is easy to use in daily practice.”

    M.I. Slui, Fides Wonen - Dealing with Aggression
    Rating 8.0
  • “It is a good course from which everyone can take away points and methods to improve their own communication skills in situations where aggression occurs or may occur.”

    J. van den Oever - Enexis Groep - Dealing with Aggression
    Rating 8.8
  • ""The trainer takes the group along very well in his explanations; it is easy for less experienced people to follow too.""

    - Dealing with Aggression
  • “The ‘Dealing with Aggression’ course was extremely valuable and practical. The combination of theory and realistic exercises gave me tools to handle difficult situations better. The trainer was knowledgeable and created a safe atmosphere in which everyone dared to take part. I would recommend this course to anyone who may encounter resistance or aggression in their work.”

    A. Strootman - Enexis Groep - Dealing with Aggression
    Rating 10.0
  • “Interactive course using role plays and also a 'game' element. Practically applicable.”

    B. Bolinde - Alliander - Dealing with Aggression
    Rating 8.8
  • “I thought it was an instructive course, from which I took away a great deal.”

    G. Palas, SU International Zorg - Dealing with aggression
    Rating 10.0
  • ""Enjoyable course with a good trainer""

    - Dealing with Aggression
  • "It was a very useful course, with a good balance between theory and practice."

    - Dealing with Aggression
  • “A valuable course for those who want to approach their customers in the right way and do not yet have enough experience in doing so.”

    J.G. Maliepaard, Fides Wonen - Dealing with aggression
    Rating 7.6
  • “Instructive course that I can do something with in my work.”

    P. Prins, Fides Wonen- Dealing with Aggression
    Rating 8.9
  • “It's a very practical training course, immediately applicable. The theoretical side was interesting too and reinforced the practical part. Practising with an actor was nerve-racking but incredibly instructive. I think I can handle aggression better now.”

    Andrea Dijkman-Stam, INOVA- Dealing with Aggression
    Rating 8.5
  • “Interesting course with recognisable elements. Very good to be able to practise your own case with a wonderful actor.”

    H.L. Morel van Mourik, Provincie Fryslân- Dealing with Aggression
    Rating 8.4
  • “Very much focused on practice, which is good for us.”

    G. Lodewijks - Enexis Groep- Dealing with Aggression
    Rating 8.4
  • “Highly recommended! Learn to deal effectively with aggression and behaviour.”

    B. Kutuk, SU International Zorg- Dealing with Aggression
    Rating 8.8
  • "The course had a good balance between theory and practice. The trainer was good at keeping the group's attention. Definitely a valuable addition."

    - Dealing with Aggression
  • “The course has been very useful and instructive for me. Role plays are used, which allows you to reflect properly on your own actions. It also gives clear insight into which behaviour provokes which behaviour. It has been good for me to become aware of different kinds of behaviour and, above all, how you can turn a conversation around so that it does not end in verbal aggression (or as little as possible). The trainer is also very pleasant, and the organisation is easy to reach. A very interesting and instructive course, then!”

    P.S. Kempen, GGD Hollands Midden - Dealing with Aggression
    Rating 8.0

Learnit reviews

Frequently asked questions

The Dealing with Aggression course is suitable for anyone who encounters verbal or physical aggression at work. Think of care workers, social workers, police staff, bailiffs, employees of local authorities and other government bodies, and people working at a reception desk, helpdesk or customer service department. No prior knowledge is required; you start with an intake in which your own learning objectives are central.

The Dealing with Aggression course covers three main themes: aggression and conflict (types of conflict, forms of aggression), dealing with aggressive behaviour (problem analysis, listening-summarising-asking further questions, assertiveness, setting boundaries, staying calm under criticism) and the organisational side (an open culture, buddy support, reporting incidents). You practise with situations from your own working practice and finish with an action plan for collegial support.

Yes, on completing the Dealing with Aggression course you receive a certificate of participation from Learnit. To qualify, you attend both course days actively and take part in the practical exercises and reflection sessions. The certificate confirms that you have been trained in de-escalating conversation techniques, setting boundaries and dealing professionally with verbal and physical aggression.

The Dealing with Aggression course is taught in a classroom setting, alternating between experiencing, practising behaviour, reflecting and exploring theory. You work with real situations from your own job, so that you immediately notice the effect of new behaviour. Beforehand you have an intake meeting in which you formulate your personal learning objectives. On that basis the trainer determines the final programme.

Yes, the Dealing with Aggression course is available as an in-company course and as a bespoke programme. You always start with an individual intake interview in which you formulate your personal learning objectives. The final programme is determined on that basis, tailored to your profession, practical situations and prior knowledge. This way, the course matches exactly the threatening situations you encounter in your work.

This course suits you if you regularly have to deal with verbal or physical aggression in your work and want to strengthen your basic attitude and conversation skills. Think of care workers, support workers, bailiffs, reception staff and civil servants at organisations such as UWV, SVB or a local authority. The focus is on de-escalation through conversation techniques (listening, summarising, asking follow-up questions), self-knowledge and setting boundaries. If you work in an environment where physical restraint or arrest techniques are central, a specific resilience or physical intervention course is more appropriate. If you mainly want to learn to deal with difficult customers without aggression, a course on customer conversations is a better fit. Still in doubt? In the individual intake you determine together with the trainer whether your learning objectives fit within this course.

The difference lies in practising with your own behaviour under pressure. You can indeed read up on the theory of aggression and de-escalation, but the Dealing with Aggression course is about experiencing, experimenting and reflecting in a classroom setting. You practise conversation techniques such as listening, summarising, asking follow-up questions and setting boundaries on situations from your own practice. A trainer and fellow participants give you direct feedback on your body language, timing and tone. You will not get that from a video. You also work on self-knowledge: you learn to recognise your own pitfalls and triggers, so that you can separate emotions from the situation. Following an intake, the programme is tailored to your profession and learning objectives. Self-study is useful as preparation; changing behaviour requires practice with real interaction.

Learnit's Dealing with Aggression course focuses on de-escalating threatening situations through conversational skills, self-knowledge and a professional attitude. The focus is on verbal techniques such as listening, summarising, probing, setting boundaries and responding assertively. You learn how your response can prevent a situation from escalating. A physical resilience course or self-defence course, by contrast, focuses on physical techniques for the moment when aggression has already turned physical. This course does cover the physical and mental effects of aggression, but it does not teach you fighting techniques. If you work in a role in which physical confrontations occur regularly, this course is a good addition to a physical resilience course, not a replacement for it.

You can try out the de-escalation techniques (listening, summarising, asking follow-up questions, setting boundaries, responding assertively) in your work straight after the first course day. There is deliberate space between day 1 and day 2 to practise in your daily work; on day 2 you reflect on those experiences and adjust your approach. For lasting behavioural change, repetition and conscious practice are needed. The course encourages ownership of your own development process, so that you continue to develop afterwards as well. Part of the course is an action plan for buddy support, allowing colleagues to keep supporting each other in the workplace. Compared with a one-off workshop, the effect is more lasting because you work with cases from your own practice and personal learning objectives from the intake.

Yes. The Dealing with Aggression course starts with an individual intake in which you put forward your personal learning objectives and situations from your own practice. The programme is determined on that basis. During the course, experiencing, experimenting, reflecting and theory alternate, and your own cases form the starting point for the exercises. This means that a situation that affects you can literally be discussed and practised. Explicit attention is paid to the physical and mental effects of aggression, to your own pitfalls and to separating emotions from the situation. At the end, you jointly draw up a plan for collegial support (buddy support), so that you are not left alone with what you experience in the workplace after the course either.

The Dealing with Aggression course is classroom-based. The difference with an e-learning course or webinar lies mainly in practising behaviour under pressure. In an e-learning course you are given theory about types of conflict, forms of aggression and conversation techniques such as listening, summarising and asking follow-up questions. What you do not get there: live practice with a trainer and fellow participants, immediate feedback on your body language and voice, and the experience of your own reaction when someone is standing in front of you. It is precisely that experience that determines whether techniques also work in a real situation. A webinar is suitable for building up knowledge beforehand; the classroom course is suitable if you want to change your basic attitude and reaction patterns. An intake interview takes place beforehand, so that the programme matches your working practice.

You can find the current price at the top right of this course page, along with the schedule, location and delivery format. For in-company or bespoke courses we are happy to provide a quotation on request.