In this course, you learn to structure a bad-news conversation in five phases. You practise tone, compassion and firmness, so that you stay clear and remain in control.

  • Delivering bad news with empathy and clarity
  • Five phases for a clear conversation
  • Practise straight away with your own workplace situations
  • Personal feedback from an experienced trainer
  • Insight into pitfalls and how to avoid them

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1 day

Zwolle Wed 25 November 2026
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€625,-

Delivering bad news calls for nerve and empathy. In this course, you work with experienced trainers on a clear conversation structure in five phases, so that you remain clear and involved. This way you stay in control and give the other person the space they need.

Description

Delivering bad news is part of many roles: announcing a dismissal, disappointing a client or informing a patient of an unwelcome diagnosis. You feel responsible for the message and involved with the recipient. That dilemma is why many people postpone or soften the bad news, while a clear conversation is actually more pleasant for both sides.

In this course you work on the structure of a bad news conversation in five phases: the introduction, delivering the message, room for the impact, thinking about solutions together and making a follow-up appointment. You practise with the right tone, learn how to show compassion while remaining firm, and thus stay in control of the conversation.

You alternate between practice, reflection and theory, with room for your own workplace situations. By actually experiencing what different behaviour achieves, you make the translation to your own job. An intake takes place before the course, so that the programme matches your learning objectives.

Topics

  • The five phases of a bad news conversation
  • Structure of the conversation
  • Content level: formulating clearly and firmly
  • Relationship level: showing compassion without softening the message
  • Arguing your case and substantiating your message
  • Dealing with emotional reactions
  • Thinking along about solutions
  • Next steps and making agreements
  • Common pitfalls and how to avoid them

Result

After this course, you will deliver bad news in a clear and respectful way. You structure the conversation around five phases: you open the conversation, deliver the message clearly, allow room for the emotional reaction, think through the options for what comes next and arrange a follow-up appointment where necessary.

You know how to remain steadfast without coming across as distant, and how to show compassion without softening or postponing the message. You recognise the familiar pitfalls, such as the hope-springs-eternal phase or the reflex to ease the pain, and you know how to avoid them. You also learn to switch between the content level and the relationship level, so that you keep control of the conversation and the recipient feels taken seriously.

Target audience

This course is ideally suited to anyone who occasionally has to deliver bad news. Think of managers, project leaders, sales staff, service staff, care workers, doctors and consultants.

Teaching method

During the course we alternate between experiencing, experimenting with behaviour and techniques, reflecting and exploring theory. In this way the programme suits different types of participants. There is plenty of action: you immediately experience the effect of new behaviour, so you recognise what works.

We emphasise that you are responsible for your own development process and take ownership of it. You are continually invited to reflect and to make links with your own practice. Our aim is to increase your insight and let you make the translation to your daily work yourself. This increases the chance of genuine behavioural change.

Prior knowledge

You do not need any specific prior knowledge to take part in this course. It is useful, however, if you sometimes have to deliver bad news in your work, so that you can link the exercises directly to your own workplace situations.

Comments

Nothing particular to note for this course. The content may vary slightly per group, because during the intake we tailor it to your learning objectives and workplace situations.

In-company

Would you like to organise this training for a whole group or several groups? This can be cost-effective. For example, we can tailor the content entirely to your organisation, and training a whole group is also cheaper.

Are you looking at large numbers of participants or a complete academy? That involves a great deal. Consider planning and communication, for example, or identifying and agreeing the objectives and content of the training. Or differences in level, feedback mechanisms and safeguarding. Fortunately, Learnit has extensive experience in this field (more than 25 years) and we are happy to help you through this process.

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Language

The training is given in Dutch as standard. The trainer has a good command of English. English-language course material can be used. With a minimum enrolment of 3 participants, the training can also be given entirely in English.

Available dates

When would you like to start?

Tue 29 September 2026

Amsterdam
€ 625,- excl. VAT

Wed 25 November 2026

Online
€ 625,- excl. VAT

Tue 15 June 2027

Utrecht
€ 625,- excl. VAT

Wed 25 November 2026

Zwolle
Guaranteed start
€ 625,- excl. VAT

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Location
Date
Guaranteed start

1 training day

Guaranteed start

Wed 25 November 2026

Zwolle
Guaranteed start
€ 625,- excl. VAT

Amsterdam

Tue 29 September 2026

Amsterdam
€ 625,- excl. VAT

Online

Wed 25 November 2026

Online
€ 625,- excl. VAT

Utrecht

Tue 15 June 2027

Utrecht
€ 625,- excl. VAT

Zwolle

Wed 25 November 2026

Zwolle
Guaranteed start
€ 625,- excl. VAT

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Reviews

What others say about this course

Delivering Bad News course reviews - Average rating 8.6 out of 2 reviews

  • “The goal I came for was discussed sufficiently. I was able to take away a lot from the tips that were given. The trainer explained everything precisely. She addressed points for improvement, etc. She did a very good job!”

    S. Kip, Bosch Scharnieren - Delivering Bad News course
    Rating 9.2
  • “A very interactive course with plenty of room for your own input and situations that occur on a daily basis.”

    J. Venhorst, PCI groep - Delivering Bad News
    Rating 8.0
  • “The content was very good and well tailored to our company. The trainer was highly knowledgeable and was able to give many recognisable examples. The intake interview beforehand was good too.”

    H. Korten, Hoopman Machines B.V. - Conducting Performance and Appraisal Interviews
    Rating 8.4
  • “Very instructive course. The trainer is professional and takes the time for you.”

    B. Pennings - De Volksbank - Motivational Interviewing
    Rating 9.2
  • “I thought the course was good and, above all, useful and instructive. Even though I am not feeling great at the moment and am not quite myself, I still got a lot out of it. Most people dread role-plays, but once you are over the 'fear', doing a role-play is great fun and very instructive.”

    M. Mulder, Ministry of the Interior and Kingdom Relations (BZK) FMHaaglanden – Conversation Techniques
    Rating 9.0
  • "It is a course with plenty of room for real-life problems. The set-up also gives you enough time to practise cases."

    W. T. R. Jansen, Ministry of Defence - Conducting Appraisal and Performance Review Meetings
    Rating 8.0
  • “During the course there is attention for everyone's personal examples from practice, which means you really get something out of the course.”

    I. de Bruin - Gemeente Amsterdam- Conducting Conversations
    Rating 9.0
  • “Complete, short, concise, fast, interactive and thorough. A good choice to follow this practice-oriented course. My team will certainly apply the topics covered in practice.”

    R. van Vliet, KLOK Containers- Recruitment and Selection: Conducting Job Interviews
    Rating 8.0
  • “The course was very manageable. A great many topics were covered in two days, with the needs of the group taken into account. Because the group was small, everyone had plenty of opportunity to take part. A hugely enthusiastic, inspiring and very versatile trainer. A good mix of theory and exercises. She explains things well and makes good use of telling examples. Every available resource was put to use (the room was covered in sheets). She is skilled with video and uses it convincingly to hold up a mirror to the participants.”

    K. van Wieren - Conversation Techniques
    Rating 9.2
  • "The course boosts your self-confidence. You learn to conduct a conversation to the best effect, and you can also bring difficult conversations to a proper conclusion."

    K. Schipper, Intermaris - Conversation Techniques
    Rating 9.2
  • “Instructive, interesting.”

    J. van Oosten, Zorg en Zekerheid- Conversation Techniques
    Rating 8.2
  • “The overall impression was good; the course gives you tools to become more aware of your own part in a conversation. Where you may need to take a different approach to achieve a better/more pleasant outcome. Or to discover that you may have done something better in the past than you first thought. (that is nice too sometimes)”

    G. Campfens - Vattenfall- Conversation Techniques
    Rating 10.0
  • “Extremely instructive and of added value to your work as a professional.”

    S. den Hartog – Conducting Confrontational Conversations
    Rating 7.6
  • “Learnit delivers this STARR training course in a professional manner. A sound structure that you can put to good use in practice.”

    Jeroen Wooning, RedWave Beheer B.V. - Selection Interviews with STAR
    Rating 7.7
  • “An interesting and highly applicable course in the field of communication. A good refresher and made very applicable by the trainer, Job.”

    J. Janssen - Nederlandse Publieke Omroep - Conversation Techniques
    Rating 9.6
  • “I had initially signed up for a different course (Interview Techniques). During a conversation with Learnit Training, it turned out that this course also matched my needs well. They had judged that correctly. We were a small group, which meant the course could be tailored closely to our learning objectives. The trainer was very flexible; she adapted to our answers to questions. You could feel that she wanted to help you move forward. In my view she has a great deal of knowledge and expertise. I thoroughly enjoyed her sessions; she inspired me.”

    A. Wösten, Stichting Icare - Conversation Techniques
    Rating 10.0
  • "I got a lot out of the course! I now feel that I dare to take on any conversation, although you keep learning all your life. Definitely recommended!"

    - Conversation techniques and influencing
  • "Enjoyable course, open atmosphere, fits your own learning needs well."

    - Conversation techniques and influencing
  • “I really enjoyed this course. The trainer had prepared thoroughly by calling beforehand and asking detailed questions about my personal learning objectives. These were then incorporated into the programme. I learned a great deal and received well-produced course materials. Highly recommended!”

    M. van der Burght, Gemeente Arnhem - Conversation Techniques
    Rating 9.0
  • “' An instructive and interesting course, in which you learn how to open a conversation, for example a bad news conversation.'”

    H.J. Kroon. DZB Leiden - Conversation Techniques
    Rating 8.2
  • “A good course that really applies to job interviews, but you can apply the theory to other conversations as well.”

    M. Moritz-Schrevelius - Hogeschool Rotterdam- Recruitment and selection: conducting job interviews
    Rating 8.2
  • “This really is a tailor-made course. Beforehand you speak directly with the trainer. That way you get to know the trainer in advance and your goals are discussed. These goals are then addressed during the course. It is an interactive course. The material is built up step by step, so that at the end of the day you go home feeling that you have genuinely learned something. Definitely recommended.”

    M. Luiten, Kinderopvang 't Goudvisje- Selection Interviews using STAR
    Rating 8.6
  • "Over the past few months we at FMHaaglanden have been inundated with courses and training. It took me a lot of effort to get motivated again for this course. Once there, I was carried along by the trainers' enthusiasm, which made it an instructive course that flew by as well!"

    G. v/d Kamp, Ministerie van Binnenlandse Zaken en Koninkrijksrelaties (BZK) FMHaaglanden - Conversation Techniques
    Rating 9.0
  • “The course gives you insight into your own communication style. Thanks to the group dynamics you also learn things from others, which is very pleasant. Through role plays you practise situations in which you previously got stuck. With the knowledge from this course you go into conversations with more confidence.”

    S. Berswerda - Conversation Techniques
    Rating 8.8
  • “Good preparation, good content, well delivered.”

    R. Koops, Ministerie van Binnenlandse Zaken en Koninkrijksrelaties (BZK) FMHaaglanden - Conversation Techniques
    Rating 8.2
  • “A must for an effective competency-based interview!”

    E. van Herwijnen, Viroclinics - Recruitment and Selection: Conducting Job Interviews
    Rating 8.9
  • “An instructive course. Plenty of tips you can use in practice. It really makes you aware of your own behaviour. It teaches you to give conversations more depth and to genuinely find answers to your questions.”

    G. van den Boestert, Kinderopvang 't Goudvisje - Selection Interviews with STAR
    Rating 8.1
  • "The course is tailored as far as possible and made practical with plenty of role plays. I was able to put it to use straight away!"

    E. van de Wijn, Hoteschool Amersfoort- Conversation Techniques
    Rating 7.8
  • “A very useful course with practical applications.”

    S. Ham, Ready For Change B.V.- Personal Development Plan Interviews
    Rating 8.6
  • “Excellent course that not only increases your personal skills, but also the team spirit between you and your colleagues.”

    J. Beijersbergen, Ministerie van Binnenlandse Zaken en Koninkrijksrelaties (BZK) FMHaaglanden- Conversation Techniques
    Rating 8.2
  • “An organisation-focused training course in which you can indicate your own wishes in advance.”

    I. van den Berg, Hoi Pippeloi- Conversation Techniques
    Rating 8.0
  • “A lively course geared to the participant and their needs, with plenty of practice, so the day flies by and you learn a great deal without feeling that you are cramming.”

    Birgitta Blank, Stichting Het Rijnlands Lyceum, European School The Hague - Conversation Techniques
    Rating 7.7
  • “Interesting course: instructive and good trainers.”

    P.T. van Twillert, Gemeente Bunschoten - Conversation Techniques (follow-up course)
    Rating 7.4
  • “I found the content of the course very good. The trainer addressed all the cases and went into each one individually. The feedback given was received very positively.”

    J. Schuurman, FM Laaglanden - Advisory and Conversation Techniques
    Rating 8.1
  • "It is a course you can apply in practice, and you learn a great deal about communication. You gain a new perspective on your own role in it."

    - Conversation techniques and influencing
  • "I had a pleasant training day on conducting PDP interviews. It was instructive, partly because we did exercises regularly, with the trainer stepping in at just the right moment. That way you were aware of what was happening. It was good that it was a small group, which meant there was real room to put forward specific questions and cases from your own organisation."

    D. te Ronde - Service Apotheek Kerkewijk- Personal Development Interviews
    Rating 9.0
  • “Clear course. Nice that the first day was very concrete and the second day went into more depth, so that the technique can be applied in a targeted way.”

    I. Hagedoorn, Peak-IT- Recruitment and Selection: Conducting Job Interviews
    Rating 9.0
  • “I recently took the conversation techniques course at LearnIT. The content of this course was very instructive and interesting. What is more, it was taught by an excellent trainer! I learned a lot from it. For this course LearnIT is definitely worth recommending!”

    M. Broekhuijsen, Wigo4it- Conversation Techniques
    Rating 8.6
  • “This course provides many practical tools that can be applied straight away. Continuing to practise is important, though.”

    M. Rorije - ProRail - Conversation Techniques
    Rating 8.0
  • “Very experienced trainer and excellent organisation.”

    D. Aben, GGD Brabant-Zuidoost- Personal Development Plan interviews
    Rating 9.0
  • "The course gives you an impression of how to conduct certain conversations, which comes up a lot in our work... so it was very useful"

    - Conversation techniques and influencing
  • “A very practical course, adapted to the participants: a good trainer, a small group and a good atmosphere. Being able to communicate well is important every day, in every contact. So it is very good to really take two days for it under professional guidance.”

    A. Flipse- Conversation Techniques
    Rating 8.4
  • “A good and useful course with a very likeable trainer!”

    V.P.S.E. Langereis, Maison de Bonneterie - Recruitment and Selection: Conducting Job Interviews
    Rating 8.0
  • “A very practically applicable course with exercises and the STAR method, which is also very useful.”

    J.S.M. Peters, Delba Special CarbideP Products B.V.- Recruitment and selection: conducting job interviews
    Rating 7.4
  • “2 excellent half-day sessions supported by a clear syllabus, but above all driven by your personal learning needs with practical exercises. Training with the actor is nerve-racking, but so instructive.”

    T. van Steijn - Bejo Zaden- Early-warning and Absence Conversations
    Rating 8.2
  • ""An excellent trainer who shares the content in a didactically enjoyable way.""

    - Motivational interviewing
  • “Very well thought-out course. Theory, applying it yourself, role play (which elements work and which do not), role play again. So that all facets were covered through repetition. Training is repetition. The trainer created a very pleasant atmosphere and had perfect expertise.”

    H. Hofland, P-Services HR Group- Conducting Performance and Appraisal Interviews
    Rating 10.0
  • "Really enjoyable course! Learnt a lot and definitely picked up good tips to apply in everyday life."

    - Conversation techniques and influencing
  • “It is an excellent course with many practical assignments. You are given plenty of tools for steering a conversation as effectively as possible.”

    H. vom Hofe, PCBO- Conversation Techniques
    Rating 10.0
  • "Very instructive and opens your eyes to how you look at yourself and what you can still 'improve'."

    - Conversation techniques and influencing

Learnit reviews

Frequently asked questions

The course is suitable for anyone who has to deliver bad news in their work. Think of managers, project leaders, sales staff, service employees, care workers, doctors and consultants. Prior knowledge is not required. Whether you are announcing a dismissal, communicating a rejection or sharing an unpleasant diagnosis: you learn the basic principles of a good bad-news conversation.

You structure a bad-news conversation in five phases: a short introduction, delivering the bad news directly, attention to the emotional impact, thinking through possible solutions together and arranging a follow-up appointment. In the Delivering Bad News course, you practise each phase in classroom-based training, so that you lead the conversation firmly and with compassion.

No, you don't need any prior knowledge for the Delivering Bad News course. The course is suitable for anyone who occasionally has to convey an unwelcome message at work. During an individual intake beforehand, we discuss your learning objectives and practical experience, so that the programme of the classroom-based course day matches your situation.

In the Delivering Bad News course you learn to convey a difficult message clearly and with empathy. You practise structure, the content and relationship levels, building arguments, making follow-up arrangements and recognising pitfalls. You also practise using the right tone, staying firm and keeping control of the conversation, so that you continue to communicate effectively under pressure.

The Delivering Bad News course is a classroom-based course in which you alternate between experiencing, experimenting with behaviour, reflecting and theory. You actively practise with realistic conversation situations, so that you immediately notice the effect of new behaviour. The trainer continually invites you to make links with your own practice, which increases the chance of genuine behavioural change.

An online course or e-learning is suitable for getting to know the theory behind delivering bad news, such as the difference between the content level and the relational level. The classroom-based Delivering Bad News course at Learnit goes a step further: you actively practise with real conversation situations under the guidance of a trainer. You experiment with behaviour, receive immediate feedback and experience for yourself the effect of a different tone or wording. That practice with emotion, resistance and your own pitfalls is something an e-learning cannot offer. The course is therefore particularly relevant if you actually hold such conversations in practice, for example as a manager, doctor or adviser. For purely building knowledge without practice, self-study is sufficient; for changing behaviour, a classroom setting is more effective.

The Delivering Bad News course is a classroom-based course focused on learning a concrete conversation structure: the five phases of a bad news conversation, dealing with emotions and standing firm under pressure. Choose this course if you regularly have to deliver bad news, or will have to soon, and want a workable method to fall back on. An individual coaching programme is a better fit if you already have experience and want to work on personal patterns specifically, or if your situation is highly confidential. The course works with small groups of participants and practice scenarios, so you also learn from others. No prior knowledge is required. For managers, care professionals, sales staff and consultants this is usually an efficient first step.

The difference lies in practising real conversations and receiving immediate feedback. You do not learn to deliver bad news by reading theory, but by experiencing what your words, tone and attitude do to the recipient. During this course day you alternate between concrete practice, experimenting with new behaviour, reflecting and exploring theory. A book can explain the five phases, but it cannot make you feel what happens when you put off the bad news for too long, or deliver it too bluntly. The trainer observes your pitfalls and helps you switch between the content level and the relationship level. You recognise success by noticing straight away what works. Self-study is suitable for knowledge; classroom practice is needed for changing behaviour under pressure.

You can apply the basic structure immediately after the training day. During the classroom day you practise the five phases so often that you have the sequence at your fingertips: introduction, delivering the bad news, room for impact, thinking along about solutions and any follow-up arrangement. What takes longer is switching smoothly between the content and relationship levels under pressure. Allow for a few real-life conversations after the course. Reflection on your own behaviour is a fixed part of the teaching method, precisely because changing behaviour takes time. Participants who have a difficult conversation scheduled shortly after the course benefit most: the structure is still fresh and you notice straight away which pitfalls you recognise.

This course focuses specifically on one type of conversation: delivering bad news. You will learn a five-phase conversation structure, how to stay firm under emotional pressure and how to switch between the content level and the relationship level. Choose this course if bad news conversations are a recurring part of your work, for example as a manager, doctor, care worker, project leader or service employee. A broader conversation techniques course is a better fit if you mainly want to work on general skills such as listening, giving feedback or chairing meetings. The difference lies in the depth: this course practises specifically with the tension between task and emotion, and with pitfalls such as postponing or softening the message. Duration:.

The course is suitable for both groups. The five-phase model you learn (introduction, delivering the bad news, attention to impact, thinking along about solutions, follow-up arrangement) works just as well for a one-off dismissal interview as for daily conversations in care or customer contact. For those who do it occasionally, the value lies mainly in a reusable structure you can fall back on in tense situations. Those who do it regularly use the course to break fixed patterns and pitfalls and to choose more consciously between the content and relationship levels. The course lasts In the intake beforehand we establish how often and in what context you conduct bad-news conversations, so that the exercises match your own practice.

You can find the current price at the top right of this course page, along with the schedule, location and delivery format. For in-company or bespoke courses we are happy to provide a quotation on request.