On this course you learn techniques for handling your emotions and frustrations in the workplace more effectively, staying calm and responding consciously in difficult situations.

  • Calm and control when emotions run high
  • Stronger relationships with colleagues
  • Choose how you respond, there and then
  • More self-confidence and inner balance
  • Resolving conflicts with empathy and respect

First guaranteed start dates

2 days

Utrecht Wed 16 & Wed 30 September 2026
Eindhoven Mon 7 & Mon 21 September 2026
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€1250,-

Anger and frustration at work drain your energy and put relationships under pressure. In this course you will be given practical techniques to handle your emotions, stay calm and consciously choose how you respond. You will work on self-insight, communication and lasting behavioural change.

Description

Anger and frustration are part of the job, but the way you deal with them makes all the difference. In this course you are given techniques for dealing effectively with your own emotions and frustrations in the workplace.

You learn to stay calm, to recognise warning signals in time and to consciously choose how you respond instead of being led by impulses. Using the iceberg theory and the frame of reference, you gain insight into facts versus interpretations, which teaches you to look at situations from several perspectives.

You also give attention to self-knowledge: why do you become frustrated, what do those emotions do to you and how do you raise anger in a constructive way? With assertiveness, positive communication styles and conflict management techniques you build calmer and more pleasant working relationships.

Topics

  • Negative effects of frustration and anger
  • When is anger justified?
  • Calming methods
  • Continuing to think rationally
  • The communication model and positive communication styles
  • Non-verbal and verbal communication
  • The iceberg theory: facts and interpretations
  • Frame of reference: understanding yourself and others better
  • Being assertive
  • Your own emotions, thoughts and feelings
  • Conflict management techniques
  • Giving and receiving criticism
  • Expressing frustrations and emotions effectively
  • Building self-confidence
  • Life balance and its effect on your emotions
  • Showing empathy
  • Do's and don'ts
  • Role plays (with an actor if required)

Result

After this course you will recognise the signs of mounting frustration in time and be able to consciously choose how you respond, instead of being carried away by an impulse. You will know how to stay calm under pressure and how to look at a situation from several points of view.

You gain a better understanding of where your anger comes from and what it does to you. This allows you to raise frustrations in a constructive way, without damaging the relationship with your colleagues or manager. You apply assertive communication, give and receive criticism constructively and show empathy in difficult conversations.

The result: more peace of mind, stronger working relationships and a more pleasant working day for yourself and the people around you.

Target audience

This course is intended for anyone who sometimes finds it difficult to stay calm at work. Whether you are quickly irritated by a colleague, bottle things up until the bucket overflows, or simply want to learn to respond more consciously to difficult situations: this course gives you tools to get a grip on your own frustrations and emotions.

Teaching method

During the course we alternate between concrete experience, experimenting with behaviour and techniques, reflection and exploring theory. This means the programme suits a variety of participants. There is plenty of action in the course, so that you actually experience the effect of new behaviour. This makes it possible to recognise success. In addition, we emphasise that everyone is responsible for their own development and takes ownership of it. We invite you to reflect continuously and to make connections with your own practice. Our aim is to increase your insight and to let you make the translation to your own situation. That increases the chance of genuine behavioural change.

Prior knowledge

No specific prior knowledge is required for this course. It does help if you are open to self-reflection and prepared to take a critical look at your own behaviour and reactions. An eager and enquiring attitude is all you need to bring.

Comments

You can also take this course one-to-one, so that you can practise situations from your own working practice in a safe setting. Would you like to take part with a team? Then ask about the options for a tailored in-company version.

In-company

Would you like to organise this training for a whole group or several groups? This can be cost-effective. For example, we can tailor the content entirely to your organisation, and training a whole group is also cheaper.

Are you looking at large numbers of participants or a complete academy? That involves a great deal. Consider planning and communication, for example, or identifying and agreeing the objectives and content of the training. Or differences in level, feedback mechanisms and safeguarding. Fortunately, Learnit has extensive experience in this field (more than 25 years) and we are happy to help you through this process.

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Language

The training is given in Dutch as standard. The trainer has a good command of English. English-language course material can be used. With a minimum enrolment of 3 participants, the training can also be given entirely in English.

Available dates

When would you like to start?

Wed 23 Dec 2026 & Wed 6 Jan 2027

Amsterdam
€ 1250,- excl. VAT

Wed 16 & Wed 30 September 2026

Online
€ 1250,- excl. VAT

Tue 17 Nov & Tue 1 Dec 2026

Online
€ 1250,- excl. VAT

Wed 16 & Wed 30 September 2026

Utrecht Trainer: Elzo
Guaranteed start
€ 1250,- excl. VAT

Fri 9 & Fri 23 October 2026

Utrecht
€ 1250,- excl. VAT

Tue 17 Nov & Tue 1 Dec 2026

Rotterdam
€ 1250,- excl. VAT

Mon 7 & Mon 21 September 2026

Eindhoven
Guaranteed start
€ 1250,- excl. VAT

Mon 28 Sep & Mon 12 Oct 2026

Eindhoven
€ 1250,- excl. VAT

Tue 23 Feb & Tue 9 Mar 2027

Groningen
€ 1250,- excl. VAT

Tue 23 Feb & Tue 9 Mar 2027

Zwolle
€ 1250,- excl. VAT

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Location
Date
Guaranteed start

2 training days

Guaranteed start

Wed 16 & Wed 30 September 2026

Utrecht Trainer: Elzo
Guaranteed start
€ 1250,- excl. VAT

Mon 7 & Mon 21 September 2026

Eindhoven
Guaranteed start
€ 1250,- excl. VAT

Amsterdam

Wed 23 Dec 2026 & Wed 6 Jan 2027

Amsterdam
€ 1250,- excl. VAT

Online

Wed 16 & Wed 30 September 2026

Online
€ 1250,- excl. VAT

Tue 17 Nov & Tue 1 Dec 2026

Online
€ 1250,- excl. VAT

Utrecht

Wed 16 & Wed 30 September 2026

Utrecht Trainer: Elzo
Guaranteed start
€ 1250,- excl. VAT

Fri 9 & Fri 23 October 2026

Utrecht
€ 1250,- excl. VAT

Rotterdam

Tue 17 Nov & Tue 1 Dec 2026

Rotterdam
€ 1250,- excl. VAT

Eindhoven

Mon 7 & Mon 21 September 2026

Eindhoven
Guaranteed start
€ 1250,- excl. VAT

Mon 28 Sep & Mon 12 Oct 2026

Eindhoven
€ 1250,- excl. VAT

Groningen

Tue 23 Feb & Tue 9 Mar 2027

Groningen
€ 1250,- excl. VAT

Zwolle

Tue 23 Feb & Tue 9 Mar 2027

Zwolle
€ 1250,- excl. VAT

No suitable start date? Send us a date request. Then we will look together at how we can still meet your training needs.

Reviews

What others say about this course

Managing Your Own Frustrations and Emotions in the Workplace course reviews - Average rating 8.6 from 10 reviews

  • “I didn't know what to expect from the course and was pleasantly surprised by the pleasant way in which the trainer delivered it. It is also good to be in a small group with people you don't know and who come from completely different fields.”

    C. Carli - Van Hessen Holding B.V. - Dealing with your own frustrations and emotions in the workplace
    Rating 8.0
  • “I always find this difficult to describe. But my impression of the course was very surprisingly positive. I get a great deal out of it. And I would recommend it to everyone.”

    D. Greefkes-Bakker - Stichting Magentazorg - Dealing with your own frustrations and emotions in the workplace
    Rating 9.0
  • “I thoroughly enjoyed these course days. What I found most remarkable was the insight you gain into your own behaviour and how it comes across to others. The fact that you provoke the opposite in people from what you want to achieve is something I could not see myself. A real eye-opener was drawing the 'problem'. This turned it into something very simple and small, something you could take in and get to work on. Ultimately you will mainly have to work on yourself and want to change. This course has inspired me to really go for it. The theory may not have been all that new, but the way the course was delivered and the tools you are given flipped a switch for me to start working on myself.”

    L. Burger, DOC de Doornakker- Managing your own frustrations and emotions in the workplace
    Rating 9.6
  • “In a safe environment I was able to discover the source of my frustrations and gain insight into my own behaviour. As a result, I now know better how to name the situations that trigger my frustrations, so that I can respond professionally.”

    J. Reedijk, Kansspelautoriteit- Managing your own frustrations and emotions in the workplace
    Rating 7.8
  • “An instructive course that is suitable for everyone and should be included as standard in the induction of new employees. The course material provides insight into people's behaviour, the possible consequences of that behaviour and guidelines for communication.”

    H. de Vries, Omgevingsdienst Zuid-Holland Zuid - Dealing with your own frustrations and emotions in the workplace
    Rating 8.2
  • “Good course that produces self-reflection. The trainer responds well to participants' practical experiences and gives advice and tools.”

    F. Vonk - Technicom- Managing your own frustrations and emotions in the workplace
  • “Excellent course and very easy to put into practice! The Rotterdam location is very easy to reach by train! You are inside the building in a matter of seconds.”

    W. van Gool, Innofa B.V. - Dealing with your own frustrations and emotions in the workplace
    Rating 8.6
  • “This course offers deep insights into the story behind certain forms of behaviour. Why do I not respond adequately in some situations? You do have to be willing to open up and go very deep. That is sometimes painful and takes a lot of strength, but it produces good results. I can wholeheartedly recommend the course.”

    B.R. Plasmeijer, Shell Nederland B.V.- Managing your own frustrations and emotions in the workplace
    Rating 8.6
  • "'The location was absolutely great. Step off the train and you're there. I also thought the content was fine. Familiar little models, but good to refresh them once again.'"

    - Managing your own frustrations and emotions in the workplace
  • "A course like this is good for everyone, certainly because you also learn a lot about the way you communicate."

    Karin van de Vossenberg, Oosterdorp Autogroep B.V. - Dealing with your own frustrations and emotions in the workplace
    Rating 10.0
  • “The course is of a high standard. The pace is good, there is plenty of variety, and the set-up and professionalism are good too. Some of the exercises could have been a little more extensive for my liking.”

    T. Wijnen, Océ-Technologies B.V.- Dealing with your own frustrations and emotions in the workplace
    Rating 8.0
  • "In the course you first learn how you come across to others, and that is genuinely different from what you often think yourself. That impression determines how a situation can unfold. Whether you end up in an argument, achieve your goal or stay in control of the situation, and so on. I found it a real eye-opener."

    J.Knol, Provincie Zuid-Holland- Dealing with your own frustrations and emotions in the workplace
    Rating 7.8
  • "In theory you often know how things work and what you would like to improve about your behaviour. But it is only by experiencing it and practising in role plays that you really find out on which points you undermine yourself and what does work. So a course is definitely worth it if you want to progress in your learning!"

    - Managing your own frustrations and emotions in the workplace

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Frequently asked questions

The course is suitable for anyone who sometimes finds it difficult to stay calm at work or who reacts more sharply than they would like. No prior knowledge is required. You learn to recognise warning signs, respond rationally and make frustrations open to discussion. Think of employees, team leaders and professionals who want to manage their emotions better when working with colleagues.

In this classroom course you learn calming methods, rational thinking and assertive responses. You work with the iceberg theory, the communication model, conflict handling techniques and giving and receiving criticism. You also practise with role plays, learn to recognise warning signals in time and build self-confidence. This way you learn to respond in a controlled way instead of impulsively.

No, no prior knowledge is required for this classroom-based course. You can start straight away, whatever your role or work experience. Beforehand, an individual intake takes place in which your learning objectives are identified. The final programme is then determined on that basis, so that the course matches your situation and practical experience.

The course is taught in a classroom setting in a small group. You alternate between theory, reflection and practical exercises, possibly with an actor during role plays. This interactive approach helps you to genuinely experience new behaviour. The course includes course materials and an experienced trainer who guides you personally.

Yes, on completion of the course you will receive a certificate of participation from Learnit. This certificate shows that you actively attended both course days and practised the techniques covered on emotion regulation, assertiveness and conflict management. You can add the certificate to your personal development file or LinkedIn profile to make your growth in personal effectiveness visible.

The difference lies in practising real behaviour under guidance. On the classroom-based course you work with role plays, possibly with an actor, and receive direct feedback from a trainer and fellow participants. A book or e-learning can explain theory such as the iceberg model, the communication model or calming methods, but it does not practise your specific triggers and response patterns. During the course you alternate between concrete experience, experimenting, reflecting and exploring theory. In a safe setting you discover how your body reacts to frustration and which intervention works for you. Beforehand, the trainer holds an individual intake in order to incorporate your learning objectives into the programme. Self-study is suitable as a supplement, but changing behaviour calls for practice with mirroring.

This course suits you if you occasionally react too sharply to colleagues or your boss, build up frustrations at work, or notice that anger costs you energy. In this classroom course you will learn concrete techniques: calming methods, the iceberg theory (facts vs. interpretations), assertive communication and conflict handling. The focus is on work situations and on behavioural change through role plays and reflection. Coaching or therapy is a more logical route if you suffer from outbursts of anger on a structural basis, if the cause lies outside work, or if there are underlying psychological problems. The course is not a treatment programme; you are given tools and practise with your own cases in a group. Not sure? During the individual intake beforehand we discuss whether your learning objectives fit the programme.

Behavioural change around emotions is noticeable, but rarely linear. During the two course days you work with role plays (with an actor, if applicable), the iceberg theory and calming methods. This gives you concrete practice in keeping your thinking rational during a difficult conversation and consciously choosing how you respond, rather than acting on impulse. Immediately after the course you will recognise warning signs sooner and be able to raise frustrations before they escalate. Lasting change, for example reacting less sharply towards your manager or colleagues, usually takes several weeks to months of conscious application in the workplace. The course lays the foundation and provides techniques; the repetition in practice afterwards determines the effect. Reflecting afterwards with a colleague or manager helps to make progress concrete.

The course Dealing with your own frustrations and emotions in the workplace focuses specifically on work situations and interaction with colleagues, managers and clients. Mindfulness mainly teaches you attention and acceptance; stress management focuses on workload and recovery. This course combines self-insight with communication skills: you work with the iceberg theory, the communication model, conflict handling techniques and assertiveness. In role plays (with an actor if desired) you practise how to stay calm, give and receive criticism and raise frustrations in good time. Choose this course if your problem mainly shows itself in your reactions towards others at work. If you mainly suffer from worrying, poor sleep or workload in general, a mindfulness or stress management programme is often a more logical first step. The costs are.

The focus is different. An assertiveness course focuses on standing up for yourself and setting boundaries. A conflict management course is about resolving differences of opinion between parties. This course puts your own emotions and frustrations centre stage: what triggers you, which signals do you recognise, and how do you consciously choose your response instead of acting on impulse. The iceberg theory, the frame of reference and calming methods are covered, alongside assertiveness and conflict management as sub-topics. You practise in role plays, possibly with an actor. Choose this course if you notice that your own anger or frustration is getting in your way at work. Choose a purely assertiveness or conflict course if the reason lies mainly in conversation technique or mediation between others.

The course also works for frustrations involving a specific person, but the focus is on your own reaction, not on the other person. Using the iceberg theory, you learn to distinguish facts from interpretations, and you examine your own frame of reference: why does this particular behaviour affect you? You bring in concrete situations during role plays, possibly with an actor, so that you can practise new behaviour in a recognisable context. Beforehand, an individual intake session takes place in which you set out your learning objectives. What the course does not do: solve the conflict for you or change the other person. What you do get are techniques for responding assertively, giving and receiving criticism, and raising frustrations in good time. If the situation is highly escalated or confidential, individual coaching or mediation is more appropriate.

You can find the current price at the top right of this course page, along with the schedule, location and delivery format. For in-company or bespoke courses we are happy to provide a quotation on request.