Dealing with your own frustrations and emotions in the workplace course

On this course you learn techniques for handling your emotions and frustrations in the workplace more effectively, staying calm and responding consciously in difficult situations.

8.6 from 10 reviews 4,6 on Google NRTO quality mark

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In brief. Managing your own frustrations and emotions in the workplace is a 2-day classroom course. You can attend it in Amsterdam, The Hague, Utrecht and Eindhoven or online, in a group of no more than 8 participants. The price is € 1250,- excl. VAT per participant, including course materials, lunch on location and a certificate of attendance. We also deliver this course for a team or department in-company.

  • Calm and control when emotions run high
  • Stronger relationships with colleagues
  • Choose how you respond, there and then
  • More self-confidence and inner balance
  • Resolving conflicts with empathy and respect
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Anger and frustration at work drain your energy and put relationships under pressure. In this course you will be given practical techniques to handle your emotions, stay calm and consciously choose how you respond. You will work on self-insight, communication and lasting behavioural change.

Description

Anger and frustration are part of the job, but the way you deal with them makes all the difference. In this course you are given techniques for dealing effectively with your own emotions and frustrations in the workplace.

You learn to stay calm, to recognise warning signals in time and to consciously choose how you respond instead of being led by impulses. Using the iceberg theory and the frame of reference, you gain insight into facts versus interpretations, which teaches you to look at situations from several perspectives.

You also give attention to self-knowledge: why do you become frustrated, what do those emotions do to you and how do you raise anger in a constructive way? With assertiveness, positive communication styles and conflict management techniques you build calmer and more pleasant working relationships.

Topics

  • Negative effects of frustration and anger
  • When is anger justified?
  • Calming methods
  • Continuing to think rationally
  • The communication model and positive communication styles
  • Non-verbal and verbal communication
  • The iceberg theory: facts and interpretations
  • Frame of reference: understanding yourself and others better
  • Being assertive
  • Your own emotions, thoughts and feelings
  • Conflict management techniques
  • Giving and receiving criticism
  • Expressing frustrations and emotions effectively
  • Building self-confidence
  • Life balance and its effect on your emotions
  • Showing empathy
  • Do's and don'ts
  • Role plays (with an actor if required)

Result

After this course you will recognise the signs of mounting frustration in time and be able to consciously choose how you respond, instead of being carried away by an impulse. You will know how to stay calm under pressure and how to look at a situation from several points of view.

You gain a better understanding of where your anger comes from and what it does to you. This allows you to raise frustrations in a constructive way, without damaging the relationship with your colleagues or manager. You apply assertive communication, give and receive criticism constructively and show empathy in difficult conversations.

The result: more peace of mind, stronger working relationships and a more pleasant working day for yourself and the people around you.

Target audience

This course is intended for anyone who sometimes finds it difficult to stay calm at work. Whether you are quickly irritated by a colleague, bottle things up until the bucket overflows, or simply want to learn to respond more consciously to difficult situations: this course gives you tools to get a grip on your own frustrations and emotions.

Teaching method

During the course we alternate between concrete experience, experimenting with behaviour and techniques, reflection and exploring theory. This means the programme suits a variety of participants. There is plenty of action in the course, so that you actually experience the effect of new behaviour. This makes it possible to recognise success. In addition, we emphasise that everyone is responsible for their own development and takes ownership of it. We invite you to reflect continuously and to make connections with your own practice. Our aim is to increase your insight and to let you make the translation to your own situation. That increases the chance of genuine behavioural change.

Prior knowledge

No specific prior knowledge is required for this course. It does help if you are open to self-reflection and prepared to take a critical look at your own behaviour and reactions. An eager and enquiring attitude is all you need to bring.

Comments

You can also take this course one-to-one, so that you can practise situations from your own working practice in a safe setting. Would you like to take part with a team? Then ask about the options for a tailored in-company version.

Practical information

Number of days
2 days
Course times
from 10 am to 5 pm
Teaching hours
12 hours
Education level
Suitable for all levels
Preparation time
None
Included
Course materials and lunch on site
Certificate
At the end of the course you will receive a certificate of attendance
Cancel
Free up to four weeks before the start (cancellation terms)

Language

The course is given in Dutch as standard. The trainer speaks English. English-language course materials can be used. If at least 3 participants register, the course can also be given entirely in English.

In-company

Would you like to organise this training for a whole group or several groups? This can be cost-effective. For example, we can tailor the content entirely to your organisation, and training a whole group is also cheaper.

Are you looking at large numbers of participants or a complete academy? That involves a great deal. Consider planning and communication, for example, or identifying and agreeing the objectives and content of the training. Or differences in level, feedback mechanisms and safeguarding. Fortunately, Learnit has extensive experience in this field (more than 25 years) and we are happy to help you through this process.

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All start dates

2 training days. In order of date.

  • Tue 3 & Tue 17 November 2026 Amsterdam · 10:00–17:00 Enrol
  • Tue 24 Nov & Tue 8 Dec 2026 Eindhoven · 10:00–17:00Free cancellation until 27 October Enrol
  • Tue 15 Dec 2026 & Tue 5 Jan 2027 The Hague · 10:00–17:00Free cancellation until 17 November Enrol
  • Wed 3 & Wed 17 February 2027 Amsterdam · 10:00–17:00Free cancellation until 6 January Enrol
  • Tue 23 Mar & Tue 6 Apr 2027 Online · 10:00–17:00Free cancellation until 23 February Enrol
  • Tue 23 Mar & Tue 6 Apr 2027 Utrecht · 10:00–17:00Free cancellation until 23 February Enrol

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This course for your team?

Plan your own group on a date that suits you, at your office, at our premises or online. We tailor the content to your day-to-day work, and training a whole group is cheaper than individual bookings.

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  • Tailored content
  • Multiple groups or an academy are also possible
  • More than 25 years' experience
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What others say about this course

8.6
Dealing with Your Own Frustrations and Emotions in the Workplace course: average 8.6 from 10 reviews

“In a safe environment I was able to discover the source of my frustrations and gain insight into my own behaviour. As a result, I now know better how to name the situations that trigger my frustrations, so that I can respond professionally.”

J. Reedijk
Kansspelautoriteit
7.8

“This course offers deep insights into the story behind certain forms of behaviour. Why do I not respond adequately in some situations? You do have to be willing to open up and go very deep. That is sometimes painful and takes a lot of strength, but it produces good results. I can wholeheartedly recommend the course.”

B.R. Plasmeijer
Shell Nederland B.V.
8.6

“The course is of a high standard. The pace is good, there is plenty of variety, and the set-up and professionalism are good too. Some of the exercises could have been a little more extensive for my liking.”

T. Wijnen
Océ-Technologies B.V.
8.0

“I always find this difficult to describe. But my impression of the course was very surprisingly positive. I get a great deal out of it. And I would recommend it to everyone.”

D. Greefkes-Bakker - Stichting Magentazorg9.0

“I didn't know what to expect from the course and was pleasantly surprised by the pleasant way in which the trainer delivered it. It is also good to be in a small group with people you don't know and who come from completely different fields.”

C. Carli - Van Hessen Holding B.V.8.0

"'The location was absolutely great. Step off the train and you're there. I also thought the content was fine. Familiar little models, but good to refresh them once again.'"

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Frequently asked questions

Can I cancel free of charge?

Yes. Up to four weeks before the first day of the course you can cancel free of charge, without giving a reason. You then receive a credit note or, if you have already paid, a refund. If you cancel later, you pay part of the course fee: 25% between four and two weeks before the start, 75% in the two weeks before it and 100% in the final week. Moving to another start date is free of charge up to two weeks before the start, after that 50%. Sending a colleague in your place is always possible. Read the cancellation terms.

Who is the Managing your own frustrations and emotions in the workplace course suitable for?
The course is suitable for anyone who sometimes finds it difficult to stay calm at work or who reacts more sharply than they would like. No prior knowledge is required. You learn to recognise warning signs, respond rationally and make frustrations open to discussion. Think of employees, team leaders and professionals who want to manage their emotions better when working with colleagues.
Which topics are covered in the Managing your own frustrations and emotions in the workplace course?
In this classroom course you learn calming methods, rational thinking and assertive responses. You work with the iceberg theory, the communication model, conflict handling techniques and giving and receiving criticism. You also practise with role plays, learn to recognise warning signals in time and build self-confidence. This way you learn to respond in a controlled way instead of impulsively.
Is any prior knowledge required for the Dealing with your own frustrations and emotions in the workplace course?
No, no prior knowledge is required for this classroom-based course. You can start straight away, whatever your role or work experience. Beforehand, an individual intake takes place in which your learning objectives are identified. The final programme is then determined on that basis, so that the course matches your situation and practical experience.
What is the delivery format of the Dealing with Your Own Frustrations and Emotions in the Workplace course?
The course is taught in a classroom setting in a small group. You alternate between theory, reflection and practical exercises, possibly with an actor during role plays. This interactive approach helps you to genuinely experience new behaviour. The course includes course materials and an experienced trainer who guides you personally.
Do you receive a certificate after the Dealing with Your Own Frustrations and Emotions in the Workplace course?
Yes, on completion of the course you will receive a certificate of participation from Learnit. This certificate shows that you actively attended both course days and practised the techniques covered on emotion regulation, assertiveness and conflict management. You can add the certificate to your personal development file or LinkedIn profile to make your growth in personal effectiveness visible.
What does this course give you that you would not learn from a book or e-learning on emotion regulation?
The difference lies in practising real behaviour under guidance. On the classroom-based course you work with role plays, possibly with an actor, and receive direct feedback from a trainer and fellow participants. A book or e-learning can explain theory such as the iceberg model, the communication model or calming methods, but it does not practise your specific triggers and response patterns. During the course you alternate between concrete experience, experimenting, reflecting and exploring theory. In a safe setting you discover how your body reacts to frustration and which intervention works for you. Beforehand, the trainer holds an individual intake in order to incorporate your learning objectives into the programme. Self-study is suitable as a supplement, but changing behaviour calls for practice with mirroring.
When should you opt for this course and when is coaching or therapy a more logical route?
This course suits you if you occasionally react too sharply to colleagues or your boss, build up frustrations at work, or notice that anger costs you energy. In this classroom course you will learn concrete techniques: calming methods, the iceberg theory (facts vs. interpretations), assertive communication and conflict handling. The focus is on work situations and on behavioural change through role plays and reflection. Coaching or therapy is a more logical route if you suffer from outbursts of anger on a structural basis, if the cause lies outside work, or if there are underlying psychological problems. The course is not a treatment programme; you are given tools and practise with your own cases in a group. Not sure? During the individual intake beforehand we discuss whether your learning objectives fit the programme.
How will I know after this course whether I really deal with my frustrations at work differently, or is that hard to measure?
Behavioural change around emotions is noticeable, but rarely linear. During the two training days you work with role-plays (with an actor if required), the iceberg theory and calming techniques. This gives you concrete practice in staying rational during a difficult conversation and choosing consciously how you respond, rather than reacting impulsively. Immediately after the course you will recognise warning signals sooner and be able to raise frustrations before they escalate. Lasting change, such as reacting less sharply towards your manager or colleagues, usually takes several weeks to months of conscious application in the workplace. The course lays the foundation and provides techniques; the repetition in practice afterwards determines the effect. Reflecting afterwards with a colleague or manager helps to make progress concrete.
How does this course compare to a mindfulness or stress management course if my main problem is frustration at work?
The course Dealing with your own frustrations and emotions in the workplace focuses specifically on work situations and interaction with colleagues, managers and clients. Mindfulness mainly teaches you attention and acceptance; stress management focuses on workload and recovery. This course combines self-insight with communication skills: you work with the iceberg theory, the communication model, conflict handling techniques and assertiveness. In role plays (with an actor if desired) you practise how to stay calm, give and receive criticism and raise frustrations in good time. Choose this course if your problem mainly shows itself in your reactions towards others at work. If you mainly suffer from worrying, poor sleep or workload in general, a mindfulness or stress management programme is often a more logical first step. The costs are.
What is the difference between this course and a course on assertiveness or conflict management?
The focus is different. An assertiveness course focuses on standing up for yourself and setting boundaries. A conflict management course is about resolving differences of opinion between parties. This course puts your own emotions and frustrations centre stage: what triggers you, which signals do you recognise, and how do you consciously choose your response instead of acting on impulse. The iceberg theory, the frame of reference and calming methods are covered, alongside assertiveness and conflict management as sub-topics. You practise in role plays, possibly with an actor. Choose this course if you notice that your own anger or frustration is getting in your way at work. Choose a purely assertiveness or conflict course if the reason lies mainly in conversation technique or mediation between others.
Does this course also work if my frustrations mainly stem from one specific colleague or manager, or is that too personal for a group course?
The course also works for frustrations involving a specific person, but the focus is on your own reaction, not on the other person. Using the iceberg theory, you learn to distinguish facts from interpretations, and you examine your own frame of reference: why does this particular behaviour affect you? You bring in concrete situations during role plays, possibly with an actor, so that you can practise new behaviour in a recognisable context. Beforehand, an individual intake session takes place in which you set out your learning objectives. What the course does not do: solve the conflict for you or change the other person. What you do get are techniques for responding assertively, giving and receiving criticism, and raising frustrations in good time. If the situation is highly escalated or confidential, individual coaching or mediation is more appropriate.
What does the Dealing with your own frustrations and emotions in the workplace course cost, and how long does it take?

You can find the current price at the top right of this course page, along with the schedule, location and delivery format. For in-company or bespoke courses we are happy to provide a quotation on request.

Next start date: Tue 3 & Tue 17 November 2026 in Amsterdam

Free cancellation up to four weeks before the start, so you can secure a place now.

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