In this course you learn to stand up for your own interests while respecting the other person. You practise setting boundaries, saying no, giving feedback and communicating purposefully.
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In brief. Assertiveness: Standing Up for Yourself is a 2-day classroom course. You can attend it in Amsterdam, Den Haag, Utrecht and Rotterdam, among other places, or online, in a group of no more than 8 participants. The price is EUR 1250,- excl. VAT per participant, including course materials, lunch on site and a certificate of attendance. For a team or department we also deliver this course in-company.




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Do you want to stand up for yourself without steamrolling others? In this course you work on acting with self-assurance, setting boundaries and communicating purposefully. You learn to express your opinion clearly and to present yourself decisively, with mutual respect as the basis.
Assertiveness is about standing up for your own interests without trampling on the interests of others. When you respond assertively, you increase the chance of achieving your goals and you build relationships based on mutual respect.
In this course you work on presenting yourself more confidently and on the way you profile yourself. You gain insight into the difference between assertive, sub-assertive and aggressive behaviour, and you discover how communication and frames of reference influence other people's behaviour. You consider how verbal and non-verbal behaviour works, and you practise saying no, setting boundaries and making your opinion clear.
You also pay attention to giving and receiving feedback, communicating purposefully without manipulating, and recognising limiting thoughts and emotions that hold you back from standing up for yourself. By doing and experiencing in a safe training environment, you translate the theory straight into your own practice.
For teams and organisations. For a team we deliver this course in-company, focused on the situations in which your employees need to be clearer.
During this course you will cover topics including:
After this course you are aware of your own strengths and pitfalls, and you know what effect they have on others. You have a clear sense of where your boundaries lie and you dare to state them.
You use the right communication techniques to make your interests known and achieve your goals. You also know how to present yourself decisively, while maintaining mutual respect.
This course is suitable for anyone who wants to come across more assertively. Do you recognise yourself in one or more of the points below?
I find it difficult to achieve my goals at the right moments, I want to stand up better for my own interests, I want to take the initiative, be clear about what I want and profile myself well, I want to ask for attention in conversations and make my opinion clear.
This list is of course not exhaustive: everyone is different. What would you like to focus on within the theme of assertiveness?
It is a short, practical course for use at work.
You work in a small group of no more than eight participants, led by an experienced trainer. Beforehand you have an intake meeting, so that the programme matches your personal learning objectives.
During the course the emphasis is on doing and experiencing. You practise with real-life situations, experiment with new behaviour and receive immediate feedback. The atmosphere is safe and open, so you feel free to try out new skills.
We alternate theory with exercises, role-plays and reflection. This way you translate what you have learned directly into your own working and living situation.
You do not need any specific prior knowledge for this course. It does help if you are open to looking at your own behaviour and willing to practise new communication skills. Your own experiences and situations form the starting point.
This course is suitable for anyone who wants to learn to respond more assertively in work or private situations. Thanks to its personal character and the small group of no more than eight participants, you have plenty of room to work on your own learning objectives.
The course is given in Dutch as standard. The trainer speaks English. English-language course materials can be used. If at least 3 participants register, the course can also be given entirely in English.
Would you like to organise this training for a whole group or several groups? This can be cost-effective. For example, we can tailor the content entirely to your organisation, and training a whole group is also cheaper.
Are you looking at large numbers of participants or a complete academy? That involves a great deal. Consider planning and communication, for example, or identifying and agreeing the objectives and content of the training. Or differences in level, feedback mechanisms and safeguarding. Fortunately, Learnit has extensive experience in this field (more than 25 years) and we are happy to help you through this process.
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Plan your own group on a date that suits you, at your office, at our premises or online. We tailor the content to your day-to-day work, and training a whole group is cheaper than individual bookings.
Ratings from participants after completing their course, across all courses by this trainer.
“A practically oriented course that covers the theory using real-life situations from the participants. This brings the theory to life and makes it directly applicable in daily life.”
“Good, instructive course with clear practical examples and an enthusiastic trainer.”
“The assertiveness course is delivered to an excellent standard and fully tailored to our needs.”
“A course delivered in a small group, so you get more attention to work through cases from practice”
“Good, clear course and directly applicable.”
“A good course in a pleasant & relaxed atmosphere. I learnt a lot from it.”
“I thoroughly enjoyed the course. I now regularly pause to consider what the purpose of a conversation is and how I can achieve it successfully. I also go to work with more pleasure now and I no longer dwell endlessly on small things. I got a lot out of the course and it exceeded my expectations. Definitely recommended!!”
“I would recommend this course to everyone, it broadens your world view and your thinking.”
“Plenty of opportunity to practise with my own examples, very instructive!”
“Good, clear training course – genuinely useful.”
“'A very pleasant and instructive course. Very practical, and thanks to the exercises and methods I am now learning to be more assertive.'”
“It is a very instructive course. I would certainly recommend it.”
“During the course you gain a good insight into what is actually holding you back from being assertive; together with the examples, assignments and tools you are given, I already notice improvement and I believe I can become increasingly assertive in future. After the course you will not be more assertive straight away, but you do know how to improve this gradually.”
“The course content matched and was tailored to the needs of the individual participants. Small groups work very well for this. There was plenty of time for practical cases. The level and pace were good. The theory covered during the course was the theory that matched our needs. For the rest, the course material is mainly useful as a reference work.”
“I found it useful for myself to take this course. I personally find it difficult to become aware of applying the techniques. It gave me more depth and was refreshing, hopefully towards becoming more aware.”
“A course in which you learn a lot about yourself and how to deal with certain moments. The group size was pleasant.”
"My impression of the course is very good and professional, with a great deal of attention for the participant."
“This course allows you to work actively with your own cases: this gives you practical tools to change the way you do things.”
“The course is very interesting and anyone can take it. The information applies to everyone, whether you are assertive or not. You can apply what you learn both at work and in your private life. This course is useful for everyone. It is set up in such a way that you can practise straight away with real-life examples and apply the information in practice.”
“' "Assertiveness: standing up for yourself" is an excellent, accessible course focused on self-reflection, communication and assertive behaviour. Personal learning objectives are placed at the centre and practised. The results of the exercises – including giving feedback, saying no, dealing with emotions and negotiating – can be used immediately in daily life. You reap the benefits straight away!'”
“Learnit is a professional, focused organisation that employs many skilled professionals and specialists to achieve its aim.”
“Excellent course, very recognisable. Of course you don't learn it in 2 days, but you get good practical tools to work with and specific feedback to prevent you from falling back into your old habits.”
“The quality is good, and so is the level. The pace of the lessons, the variety, the set-up and the professionalism are excellent. The trainer is hugely motivating. You immediately want to put it into practice. Perfect lunch and a great atmosphere. I came by car and liked the fact that there was a car park underneath the venue. Really nothing to criticise. (Rotterdam Groothandelsgebouw)”
“Even if you have already taken plenty of other courses on standing up for yourself, you will still get a great deal out of this course because it is nice and practical. You also come to understand how your own response can steer someone else's response.”
“This course comes highly recommended. It is geared to practice (through theory and practical exercises) for both work and private life.”
“The course is very easy to apply in practical situations. It makes you think in a pleasant way and gives good tips on how to take it further.”
“Informative training course with a practical approach, underpinned by the theory.”
“This course was very practically applicable and closely geared to the needs of the participant. The trainer was a very professional and positive woman. She was good at recognising why I needed more self-confidence, and in the end she gave me just that, without my having to do very much for it.”
“This course gives a clear picture of what being assertive is, and how you should behave in order to become assertive. In other words, the theory is explained very clearly here. In addition, the practical role plays are also very useful, because you can choose situations that apply specifically to you. You gain a good insight into human behaviour (of others, but also of yourself).”
“Very illuminating course. You start to see yourself and behave differently. A really good course.”
“Enjoyable course with good content”
"I learned a great deal on this course, including a number of ways of dealing with other people more effectively. That is why I would recommend this course to everyone."
“It was an instructive training course, with good professional explanations. The trainer had an answer to every question or was able to give a good example. Respect for that. Thank you for the instructive course!”
“I thought the course covered good topics. There was also plenty of room to raise your own learning objectives and to practise with them. Through role plays you get an idea of how to tackle certain situations and what the consequences are, and you learn to approach this assertively. The trainer was very positive and made sure you felt at ease. The small group size made it very pleasant to work in. I got a lot out of the course and now feel more confident in difficult situations at work.”
“The course is very interesting and instructive, and it is presented in an enjoyable way. The small group you work in really helps to achieve the aim of the course.”
“I thought the course was great. I get a lot out of it, both professionally and personally! It really opened doors for me..”
“An intake interview makes clear exactly what the participant wants to learn. During the course itself the topics that turned out to be needed are covered, and throughout the course you are regularly asked whether any other subjects should be discussed. A variety of exercise formats (a game, role play, video recording, relaxation exercise and others) makes a lot of things clear. Everything takes place in a very relaxed and safe atmosphere; nothing turns out to be "scary". The course provides insight and useful tips, and the reader and the booklet you are given are also handy for after the course.”
“It is a compact and practical course. Because the group is small there is plenty of individual attention and room to respond to one another. I learned a great deal, from the trainer as well as from my fellow participants.”
“The course gave me good tools for going through life more assertively. For example, I learned methods for saying 'no' in a friendly way. And without feeling guilty afterwards, because the course also addresses the underlying causes, such as irrational and limiting thoughts. I also learned a great deal about the possible roles you can adopt in communication and everything you can achieve through them! The course really opened my eyes: I now communicate far more consciously and feel much more 'in control' and relaxed. On top of that, the course was given in an engaging and interactive way, with proper attention to the needs of the participants. Highly recommended!”
“To keep the peace, I often put other people's interests above my own. Until the moment I got fed up with that and thought I could win by letting the other person lose. Neither works for both parties. With Learnit's help, I found ways to value another person's interests and feelings as highly as my own. Now that I feel calmer, I can be more patient and friendly, which makes me a happier person.”
“I am very pleased that I chose to take the assertiveness course at Learnit. Recording the exercises on video was what won me over. The course is delivered very well and pleasantly, and seeing yourself back is highly instructive. In short, definitely recommended if you sometimes feel unsure of yourself.”
“Lays the foundation for a personal approach to assertiveness; you may be yourself and improve yourself. Expert trainer with plenty of room for your own input. Excellent!”
“I recently took the Assertiveness: standing up for yourself course and I was very pleased with it. The trainer, Steff, was very open and patient and dealt with matters that perhaps were not on his programme initially but which we were given the opportunity to share and discuss. The venue was excellent too, a lovely building and good catering. In short, well worth recommending if you want to become aware of your own behaviour.”
Yes. Up to four weeks before the first day of the course you can cancel free of charge, without giving a reason. You then receive a credit note or, if you have already paid, a refund. If you cancel later, you pay part of the course fee: 25% between four and two weeks before the start, 75% in the two weeks before it and 100% in the final week. Moving to another start date is free of charge up to two weeks before the start, after that 50%. Sending a colleague in your place is always possible. Read the cancellation terms.
You can find the current price at the top right of this course page, along with the schedule, location and delivery format. For in-company or bespoke courses we are happy to provide a quotation on request.
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